CARING FOR A PET

Caring for a pet is not just playing and cuddling. It is necessary to feed them every day, provide them with fresh water, clean their space, take them to the veterinarian when they are sick and give them attention even when we are tired or busy. It is through these small, everyday obligations that children learn that love is not only a feeling, but also an act. It is shown through patience, consistency and a willingness to put someone else before our own current wishes. In addition, pets teach children acceptance. They don't care about school grades, looks, or success. They love without prejudice and expectations. After a hard day, disappointment or failure, it is the dog wagging its tail cheerfully or the cat curling up on one's lap that will provide a sense of safety and unconditional support. Perhaps the most important lesson is the one about the transience of life. Although difficult, knowing that our pets don't live forever helps children understand loss and deal with grief. That painful moment can be a valuable opportunity to learn about sadness as a natural part of love, that it is okay to cry and that the memories of a loved one remain even when they are no longer there. Children will comprehend many of the lessons that come with taking care of a pet only later, when they grow up. Although they may not be comfortable putting the needs of others ahead of their own and doing something they don't really want to, through such actions they learn about responsibility and selflessness. That is why a pet is not just a playful childhood companion. It is a silent teacher that shows on a daily basis what responsibility, tenderness, patience, loyalty and unconditional love mean. And perhaps that is the greatest gift a child can receive when a small living creature arrives in their home. mag. psych. Iva Vukojević, Assistant